Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Book Reviews- January


I love reading. But I really love listening to books on CD. I started this new thing where I rent LDS books and listen to them in my car as I'm driving between patients. Between this and Laura's books she's lent me from audible, Ive been able to do some extensive studying and learning. These are some of my favorite reads this year.
I guess I read this last year, but Ive been thinking about it this year with my new years resloultions. This is a great book that help you examine what is really important to you and what your motivations are behind your actions. It motivated me to think about my happiness, clean out my closets, appreciate short but sweet workouts, buy a guitar, get a pedicure and enroll myself in volleyball class.
LOVED this book. I don't know if it would have been as interesting to me if I hadn't been having my "Virginia Experience." Here we are still living some of the controversy between races. At work people still whisper when they talk about "those black men, you know how they can be..." This book was narrated by 4 different women and I could totally relate to each of them. I kept thinking, "I know someone who talks just like that" and I could totally picture them in my mind. I am proud of how far we have come as a country, but we still have a long way to go in this department.
Just finished this book today. LOVED it. It's by a pediatrician who sites the scientific reasons why we need to get our boys outside laying in forts and away from violent TV and videogames. She said to think of a boy as a whole and not just how he performs or even acts. She said the number one predictor of whether a boy would become a successful man was how much time he spent with his father. Not quality time, just time. period. Made me want to double the ammount of time I spend with my boys and to be present- to listen and really hear them.

Journaling





I have been thinking alot about things and have decided that I need to be better about journaling. So I decided I'm going to write more on my blog and see if I can figure some things out about myself and the ways that I look at the world. I want to start out by saying that I love my Life! I am so blessed to have a wonderful family, beautiful children, a wonderful job, good friends and happy childhood memories. I am grateful for the bounties that God has blessed me with. We have been blessed to be able to pay off alot of our student loans, I start work when I want to and finish whenever I'm done. I can work 5 hours during the day and then another couple hours when the kids are in bed. I'm able to go volunteer at Jack's school and my job pays for continuing education (aka a short educational vacation every year :). I have a great job. We live across the street from some great friends who we are very involved with and are a great support to us. I would like to keep reminding myself of these things and also get to know myself better by exploring some of my idiosyncracies such as:

-Why do I not realize how good something is until it is gone or I've lost it? It's easier for me to look back on something with rose colored glasses while under-appreciating what I have right now.

- Why can I not make myself take a shower unless I have exercised or swam? Seriously sometimes I go for days waiting to get a chance to exercise so I can sweat enough to take a shower.

-Why can't I complete a food diary for more than 3 days or why can I not go more than 3 days without eating sugar?

-Why do I think that I want to be a full time stay at home mom, but whenever I am home I just want to take my kids and get out of the house?

- Why am I so influenced by commercials? Commercials can make me crave pizza or want to go on vacation or take a nap, basically anything...

-Whenever I hear of a new parenting technique or the way someone I respect is cutting out TV or minimizing their lifestyle I feel like I need to do it as well. Why? I love books on tape especially LDS books and uplifting parenting books but I don't love the guilt that comes with it if I am not able to apply all I've learned.

- Speaking of this I want to minimize, but I love buying stuff. It's fun and I can always think of a reason I might use it in the future even if I recognize that I don't really need it.

- I've spent my life trying not to become my mother but now I think I would love to be like my mom and even become a teacher like my mom.