Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Ready for Baby Brother


Three weeks to Go!!! Jack is so excited for his little brother. When he sees a baby or we talk about babies, he says, "My little brother... Coming soon " (I always hear..."to a theatre near you" but I have a feeling it won't be like a trip to the movies :)) Every time we ask him what we should name the baby he says, " Hmmm, let me think... he taps his head like Winnie the Pooh and says...mmmm.....mmm (always with a nice long pause) and then as though he is so proud of himself he says, "Baby ... Baby Brother!!" It's still very cute but now I feel like we should be narrowing in on a name. We still like Thomas but we aren't excited about that name anymore and I still hate Tom. I like the names Charlie, Luke and Noah... People say just wait and see what he looks like when he's born but I just don't know. Babies never look like names to me. Except for my miniature Adam, babies never look like their parents to me either.It's hard to tell what he's doing but he's trying to give my baby a kiss, or maybe suck so hard he'll come out, it depends on the day. When I tell him the baby can't come out because he's growing bigger and that I can't take him out Jack says, "I'll do it Mommy." He's started becoming more nurturing and very interested in babies. He occasionally puts his stuffed penguin in his shirt and tells me that Mambo is growing bigger bigger like baby brother.

We are happy and excited for this new change in our lives. Now that it's finally hot I am tempted to be like Jack and just take him out already. Jack was two weeks early so anything's possible I suppose.

Camping nightmare

Leave it to me to think that it would be fun to take Jack camping on my own when I'm nine months pregnant. I guess I just want to get in as much "fun" as I can before the world ends when I have this baby and all fun ceases and I retreat to the dreaded new baby cave. We went to the City of Rocks up in Idaho which would be cool because it had lots of neat rock formations for kids to climb on but my cousins picked a campsite that was about 20 minutes away from the cool rocks in a place with no trees (well there were a few which had been burned in a fire a while ago.) When we got there, the whole camp was sick and had been throwing up- fun for us- I think they had bad water... Jack had fun though and really liked playing with rocks and sticks and walking too close to the campfire which everyone repeatedly told him not to do and Laura's legacy lives on.
We made peach cobbler and Dutch oven lasagna YUMMY!

What a cute camper- I bought him surprises and one was a bubble gun that he got to shoot all over he really loved that power!We spent our first night and I let Jack stay up a little late and do the campfire thing. Then about 5 minutes after I fell asleep after tossing and turning to find a comfy spot on the air mattress, he woke up screaming. He was crying so hard and so loud and wouldn't calm down or open his eyes. I finally got him out of the port-a-crib and laid him with me. Then as soon as I drifted again, he did the same thing and would not be comforted. I got so frustrated with him that I kind of yelled at him and told him to open his eyes and shone a flashlight on him (which probably scared him even more than what he was waking up afraid of) Then he fell asleep next to me and almost woke up several times, but I was able to prevent more night terrors. I on the other hand was afraid to move a muscle and wake him up and since I usually toss and turn propping pillows between my legs all night, I didn't sleep. Then about 4:00 It started raining and the wind blew and knocked half of our tent down. I put it up a couple times and then resigned myself to holding it up with my arms so it didn't squish my sleeping Jack. I heard some noises and I could have sworn it was like 10:00 so I pulled us out of the tent and we climbed in the van with my mom about quarter to six. Jack quickly got comfy with my mom and she offered me a spot on the couch/bed but even in my glory days (aka especially not pregnant) I couldn't sleep on 2" of mattress. I told my mom I couldn't handle another night like that. It rained all morning and since our tent had now collapsed, rain pooled inside and soaked all of our gear. So we loaded all our soaking wet stuff in the van and headed home early.


I want to post a funny video relating to Adam's new air traffic control career.

Saturday, May 24, 2008

On eating healthy

I've been wanting to write about this ever since I went to a seminar by Michael Pollan, (he's the author of The Omnivore's Dilema and In Defence of Food: An Eater's Manifesto). It was very cool and hit a cord with me. Everyone has their own definition of what is eating healthy, but Pollan looked at the history of food. To summarize: There are so many countries in this world and they all eat different diets that are relatively healthy. In China they eat alot of fish and rice, South Americans eat alot of corn and flour, etc. One trend that I noticed however, like in Chile, people eat what was in season. You ate fish in the summer but not really in the winter. You eat yummy fattening corn with sugar for two glorious months out of the year. Here in the U.S. however we have access to any kind of food we want, we can eat rice and fish one day, beans aand corn the next, we can buy fruit in the winter, winter foods in the summer, etc... And our "American diet" is the one diet that doesn't work (just look up obesity, heart disease stats). So with that said, we have two choices: we can keep eating our American Diet and eventually our bodies will have to adapt or evolve, but the cost of that could be very high, or we could quit eating it. Easier said than done, but he gave some really good pointers that I'll list at the end.

One thing that I found very interesting is that obesity and health problems have sky-rocketed since the 70's. Before that, portions were smaller, families ate around the dinner table, my parents walked up-hill to school both ways... In 1973 there was a law called the "No immitation law" that stated that foods needed to be what people assumed they were, for example, bread needs to be made of wheat, eggs, should be eggs, if someone wants to call something sour cream and it has no real cream in it, then they would have to call it "immitation sour cream." I guess the big food businesses had a fit and demanded that the law be removed because people wouldn't buy immitation yogurt or immitation meat. This was also the age of the no-fat low-fat diets and the obesity epidemic can pretty much be pin-pointed to this altering of our foods. Maybe it is because people felt they could binge on low-fat foods and portions grew or maybe it was because now instead of eating foods with 2 or 3 ingredients, food companies had to start injecting foods with extra flavor and preservatives to make up for the fat that was missing.

Pollan said that science has been wrong- look at margarine and butter- we now know that trans fats are way worse than saturated fats and that butter is better for us than margarine. (This one's still hard for me because I grew up with a butter= bad, all fats must be terminated mentality, but when I think about it, it makes perfect sense. One bite of prime rib with butter is more satisfying and yummier than 4 slices of low fat meat product) We can't let society dictate what we should be eating, now they're pushing Omega 3's and fortifying all our foods with these extra "nutrients" and probably in 4-5 years they'll decide that was wrong and start fortifying us with something else. By the way, what's up with pushing the fact that cocoa puffs are made with whole grain- they don't even resemble grain?

So, this lecture I attended was very inspiring and made me want to change the world, but lets face it- eating healthy is more expensive than eating cheap processed foods. Here is my list of things that I'm trying to do that may not change the world but will be a little change for me:

1. Avoid products that my great-grandma would not recognize as food (example- gogurt, cheese puffs)
2. Shop the periphery of the grocery store: that's where the fresh produce is and avoid the processed aisles and "snack foods" Pollan said to eat quiet foods- foods that don't try and shout out from their box how good they are for you- think silence of the yams.
3. Don't eat anything that doesn't rot (anyone seen how long a McDonalds french fry lasts in the car?)
4. Eat foods with less than 5 ingredients
5. Go to the Farmers Market and pay more attention to the way food is grown. My mom and I are going to do a crop share thing this summer.
6. I'm having my organic milk delivered to my house. (Its fun, it's from a local farm, from cows who eat real food and no hormones, it's in recycled bottles and I feel like I'm living in the sixtys when I go he porch and see if the milk man has come yet.)
7. I'm growing as many tomatoes and peas as I can on our little patch of heaven

Like I said, I know it isn't much and I don't yet have a compost pile or pay extra for wholly organic everything, but I hope it's a step in the right direction.